Showing posts with label ego. Show all posts
Showing posts with label ego. Show all posts

Monday, 28 July 2014

How to Lead a More Meaningful Life ~ Dr Wayne Dyer

How To Lead A More Meaningful Life ~ Dr Wayne Dyer

The direction we take in life is far more significant than the place ego parks us, in the present moment.

For example, inquiring about what direction we’re headed is more valuable than focusing on how much we weigh or when we had our last cigarette.

Making a commitment to change a self-sabotaging way of life is making a commitment to change direction, and then we head toward weight loss or addiction control.

Heading toward something more purposeful and meaningful is even more significant.

Changing Life Direction If we persistently listen to the demands of the ego, we move away from our Source of being.

The ego insists on pursuing more: more stuff, accomplishments, status, triumphs, and money.

More is the mantra of the ego, fuelling endless striving with a false promise of eventually arriving.

However, every assured arrival point is seductively transformed to a desire to strive for even more, unless we choose to make a shift in the direction our life is taking.

The shift begins in the process of halting the momentum and self-importance of the ego.

Then we must proceed with the work of derailing and rerouting it in the opposite direction.

This doesn’t mean we lose our drive; rather, it signifies that our drive is realigned with a life based on experiencing Meaning and feeling purposeful.

Ambition will now be fuelled by our Source of being, rather than by ego.

Heading back to our natural Source puts us on track to a way of life that supports the potential wholeness that we are.


Here are 3 benefits of changing our life direction and making the return trip from Ambition to Meaning:


1.     Ego’s repetitious insistence to do and have more becomes less attractive.

Changing direction from a less-than-authentic existence to an authentic one doesn’t mean that we’re no longer able to attract abundance and prosperity, or that we lose our desire to be productive.

It does mean that we feel the natural bliss of being tuned in to our wholeness.

We begin to shift from doing more to doing less.

On the journey back to our original nature, we do more of what the recovery movement teaches in that we “let go and let God.”

Without pressuring ourselves to achieve at all costs, we attain the wondrous position of accomplishing more, and we ultimately feel more significance in our life.

We begin to shun the spotlight and function more from the shadows.

Our Source of being says that humility should be our primary focus.

But for years, ego has been effectively convincing us that we must focus on acquiring a reputation for being an ambitious person.

Imagine the difficulty ego has when we begin practising this kind of radical humility.


2.     A belief in unity replaces our belief in separation.

Our Source of being tells us that we’re all connected, so we start feeling less competitive — our desire to dominate is replaced by compassion, and controlling others is no longer appealing.

All conflicts, be they in our personal life or the larger world, stem from heading away from our Source of being.


3.   We begin realizing that we’re connected in Spirit to everything we perceive to be missing from our life.

When we head in the direction of where we reconnect to our Source of being, the journey is typified by an alignment in which we think and act like the Tao that flows everywhere.

As we move in this direction, there’s no possibility of shortage or lack.

We become content and grateful for all that we have.

We begin trusting the wisdom that created us.

We abandon the material ego focus and can no longer see ourselves as separate from God.

As we become one with our Source, we begin the realignment process, thinking and contemplating more like God.”


~ Dr Wayne Dyer




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Sunday, 18 May 2014

Live with true virtue ~ Dr Wayne Dyer

“The 79th verse of the Tao Te Ching, which has been especially helpful to me personally, can be called “Living Without Resentment.”

We’re asked to change the way we hold resentments following a difference of opinion or an outright quarrel.

Now what causes annoyance and anger after a dispute?

The generic response would be a laundry list that detailed why the other person was wrong and how illogically and unreasonably they behaved, concluding with something like, “I have a right to be upset when my [daughter, mother-in-law, ex-husband, boss, or whomever you’re thinking of] speaks to me that way!”

But if you’re interested in living a Tao-filled life, it’s imperative that you reverse this kind of thinking.

Resentments don’t come from the conduct of the other party in an altercation — no, they survive and thrive because you’re unwilling to end that altercation with an offering of kindness, love, and authentic forgiveness.

Lao-tzu says,

“Someone must risk returning injury with kindness, 

or hostility will never turn to goodwill.”


So when all of the yelling, screaming, and threatening words have been expressed, the time for calm has arrived.

Remember that no storm lasts forever, and that hidden within are always seeds of tranquillity.

There is a time for hostility and a time for peace.

As the storm of a quarrel subsides, you must find a way to disregard your ego’s need to be right.

It’s time to extend kindness by letting go of your anger.

It’s over, so offer forgiveness to yourself and the other person and encourage resentment to dissipate.

Be the one seeking a way to give, rather than the one looking for something to get.

Regardless of what others around you are doing, if you live with “true virtue,” you’ll seek a way to give.

This truth completely aligns with the Tao; after all, the creator of life is always giving, never taking.

So change the way you think about scarcity and resentment, and begin to truly feel the question How may I serve?

The universe will seem to respond, Finally, you got it — you’re acting like me!

I’ll keep that flow coming into your life in ways that will astound and delight you.


As Lao-tzu says,

“To the giver comes the fullness of life;

to the taker, just an empty hand.”



Here are some ways to make the wisdom of the 79th verse your reality:


Picture yourself at the termination of a quarrel or major dispute.

Rather than reacting with old patterns of residual anger, revenge, and hurt, visualize offering kindness, love, and forgiveness.

Do this right now by sending out these “true virtue” thoughts to any resentments you’re currently carrying.


Make this your standard response to any future altercations:

I end on love, no matter what!

In the midst of arguments or disagreements, practice giving rather than taking before you exit the fracas.

Offer the Tao treasures or real virtues by presenting kindness rather than a put-down, or a sign of respect instead of proving someone wrong.

Giving involves leaving the ego behind.

While it wants to win and show its superiority by being contrary and disrespectful, your Tao nature wants to be at peace and live in harmony.

You can reduce your quarrelling time to almost zero if you practice this procedure. 


Silently recite the following words from the Prayer of Saint Francis: 


“Where there is injury, [let me bring] pardon.” 


Be a giver of forgiveness as he teaches: Bring love to hate, light to darkness, and pardon to injury. 


Read these words daily, for they’ll help you overcome your ego’s demands and know “the fullness of life.”


~ Dr Wayne Dyer



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