“Until you surrender the need to know why
things happened to you as they did, you will hold on to your wounds with
intense emotional fire.
Your mind will want to heal, but your pride,
anger and emotions will remain caught up in wanting to make sure that the
people who hurt you feel bad about what they've done.
Or you may want to hurt them back.
But rest assured, your emotional self will
remain attached to the unfinished business rooted in feelings of abandonment
and humiliation, of having lost something or been cheated.
Your mind may do what's required for healing
and go through all the prescribed steps, but your heart will never fully
participate in the healing process.
In the end, forgiveness is an act of release,
surrendering the need for an explanation.
From that prospective, forgiveness has nothing
to do with the individuals who harmed you.
It is the act of accepting that there is a
greater map of life, through which flow many rivers of events and
relationships, all interconnected.
Forgiveness is your release form the hell of
wanting to know what cannot be known and from wanting to see others suffer because
they have hurt you."
~ Caroline Myss
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